Comments on: Restore my broken marriage

By: BLAKE

BLAKE — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 20:58:07 +0000

please help me with a prayer , i love my wife with the whole of my heart and i always faithful to her from day one we weed. we are 6 years together with one lovely daughter. The problems came when i came back from the holiday with my daughter.She just told me that she needs separation because i didn’t fillfeel her desire,eg giving here everything she wants in life and also whats to travel around the world and for shopping. the problem is that i was well for 2 years in hospitalised .now i am doing my second year at the college as a plumber at the same time looking for a job to save my marriage, because i love my wife and my daughter and i don’t want want to lose them ., they are my life until GOD separet us. so help me with prayers. thank you .GOD BLESSES YOU.

By: YVETTE

YVETTE — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 16:25:15 +0000

IM IN THE SAME PLACE. I WILL KEEP U IN MY PRAYERS. I HOPE GOD HEARS US AND ANSWERS OUR PRAYER.

By: Tom

Tom — Tue, 13 Sep 2011 22:31:39 +0000

My life is on a crisis and is moving way to fast. I was born in Ecuador in 1970, my father died when I was 4 in 1974. My Mom, sister and I visited my uncle and aunt in Paterson NJ. I ended up staying and my uncle and aunt adopted me so I can be a companion to my cousin and for a better life in the US. My sister came back up and lived with us a few years later. My mom tried to come back but was not able to get her visa after several attempts. I visited my mom in 1990 and it was a great fulfillment of happiness. In 1998 my mom came back to visit and shortly after she returned she passed away due to a lung disease. The year after my aunt which I considered my everything passed away suddenly by chocking on some food. This was extremely painful because I loved her more than anyone and it was right after Christmas. I always lived with emptiness and sadness in my heart and a Christian therapist was able to make me see it was always from so much lost in my life. This was all starting with my father passing away. In all those years since I was 8 there was always someone in my life I dreamed of, it was a girl with short hair. It always felt so real in my dreams that this girl would be the one I will love. In 2002 I was invited to my best friend’s wedding in NC. A week before going to the wedding I felt that something great was coming into my life and it may be at the wedding. It was then when I met my wife, she was the maid of honor and I was the best man. We immediately hit it off and felt in love, I commuted back and forth and within 3 months I proposed to her and we were engaged, we ended up marrying in less than a year. I ended up sacrificing everything and leaving my job and family to move to NC. The reason was because my wife was previously married and had 2 girls that the state didn’t not allow us to move them to NJ. We lived very happy for many years in a small town and even if I had to commute 2hrs to work, had alternate hours we managed to make our marriage work. Things back then were also very different, we had my step girls every other weekend and Wednesday. My wife shared custody with my step girls dad so we had much time together. Well everything started changing 2 years ago when my step girls didn’t want to go back to visit their dad and my wife ended up getting full custody of my step girls. My wife ended up getting busy with my step girls and with my work hours and commute I started getting depress and started drinking. It was all because I missed my wife and felt very resentful because she was so occupied with my step girls and we both ended up drifting apart. Months went by without affection, intemacy, we than started having arguments because I drank and we never had time for each other. We were good for a week or 2 after making up and started drifting apart again with living without a good communication and living separate lives. Anyway 2 months ago she started getting very depress and she ask for a trial separation. After I came back home she told me she didn’t love me anymore, and refused counseling. I pleaded with her a million times but she assure me that she was done with me. I left the house a month ago and I’m suffering very deeply. I’m getting counseling, going to church, praying for God to open up her heart and give me one more chance but I’m not sure that will ever happen. As far as I know she is totally done with me, she is very cold and tells me she feels nothing, like a switch was shut off on her heart. As far as understand in Matthew 5:32 God tells you that you should not divorce your spouse unless there has been infidelity in the marriage. I was always faithful to my wife and admit my mistakes of drinking and not communicating as I should but don’t feel I deserve this punishment. Pastor Paul I know that my wife was a gift from God, she is the only person I ever loved and we had the perfect fairy tale story. She also filled the void after my adopted mother died and completed me as a man. I just need advice if I should keep praying for my wife to come back or start moving on with my life. My pastor now thinks I should keep praying for God to make a miracle happen. Please let me know what you think is the right thing to do, I have no one here in NC other than my job. I have already started looking for jobs up north since all my family and friends are in NJ. I’m suffering very deeply and miss my wife and step children daily, I’m grieving and never felt such pain. I appreciate your prayers , thank you so much and God Bless.

By: Abby

Abby — Mon, 22 Aug 2011 18:49:49 +0000

Praying for the strength that my marriage will survive affairs of my husband. We have been married for 22 years and while I am been suspicious before, he’s always denied it and tried to deny it this time as well. Except, there was too much proof of his affairs and he doesn’t seem to feel he’s done anything wrong (except get caught). I pray that God touches his heart to let him see what he has in front of him and all that he is hurting. Our family has always come first, but I guess in his eyes, his lust comes before family. I am not sure we will survive this, but I have faith through God all things are possible.

By: sylvia

sylvia — Mon, 22 Aug 2011 06:22:45 +0000

i pray for prayers to be answered in Gods will and you accept it as what gods plan is for your life and son and God is watching your husband and deal with him as he wills! trust God never fails us in anythinghe never leftKingdavid orJoshua or anyone whom loves and seeks him kind regards sylvia

By: tommy

tommy — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 18:37:25 +0000

Please Pray for me. My wife left 8 days ago and i am broken. She is my soulmate and i miss her so. We have been married for 13 yrs and tomorrow is her birthday and im alone. We both made mistakes in our marriage and i have been forgivn. I just want her home. I am so devastated that i dont want to live anymore. Pray that God heals our marriage. She doesnt even want to talk to me and is already asking when we are going to divorce. The Bible tells me not too and i wont. I just need everybodys prayers.
Cant stop crying

By: shelia and jermayne

shelia and jermayne — Fri, 08 Jul 2011 04:21:55 +0000

Dear heavenly Father you know that I been having problems in my marriage , my husband and I are separated, lord please help us to get back together,help my husband to give his life to you,I Pray that my husband will be faithful to his wedding vows. Pray that he will have a desire to cultivate your relationship as a sign of his loyalty and commitment to you, and as a picture of
Christ’s love for the Church. (Prov. 20:6; Gen. 2:24)

Pray that my husband will love righteousness and hate wickedness, especially the evils of the
culture. Pray that he will recognize and avoid wickedness in his own life, and if necessary, take a
clear, strong stand against evil. (Prov. 27:12; John 17:15; 1 Cor. 10:12-13)Pray that your husband will grow spiritually and consider his accountability before the Lord.
Pray that he will guard his heart by developing spiritual disciplines—Bible reading and study,
prayer, meditation, scripture memorization, etc. (2 Peter 3:18; Prov. 4:23)
Pray that my husband’s relationship with God and His Word will bear fruit in his life. Pray that he will be a man of wisdom and understanding, fearing the Lord. (Prov. 3:7, 9:10; Ps. 112:1)

Pray that my husband will be humble and quick to agree with God about his sin. Pray that his
heart will be tender toward the voice of the Lord. (Ps. 51:2-4; Micah 6:
Pray that my husband will grow in leadership skills in your relationship—protecting and
providing for you. Pray that he will lead you wisely and love you sacrificially, so that God will be glorified in your marriage. (Eph. 5:25-29; Col. 3:19)
I praise You Lord & Your will be done!
I ask these thingsIn Jesus Name, Amen

By: sylvia

sylvia — Thu, 07 Jul 2011 01:55:18 +0000

Please pray for my unbelieving unrepentant husband whom thinks its okay to sleep with a prostitute and i must get over it he went back to our home while i was caring for my son his stepson whom was dying awaiting a heart and kidney transplant and my son got through the operation and okay now and i have finalised property settlement i told him if he repented and accepted Jesus i would come back but he says he cannot do this so i will live my life and see what Gods will is as he kept my on alive so he can restore mu marriage and soften Karls heart sylvia asplet

By: god knows my name

god knows my name — Thu, 23 Jun 2011 05:26:45 +0000

Help me to find the way to not want a certain outcome but rather to be open to everyone concerned finding the best path for themselves.

By: lonely mom

lonely mom — Sat, 30 Apr 2011 18:19:02 +0000

Please help me pray for my broken marriage. My husband left the house 10 days ago. he told me he wants to find himself. he wants to redeem and prove something for himself. we have two kids. One is away for a summer camp and the other one is 15month old boy. I dont want a broken home. My son needs a dad.It is so painful to feel that everytime I talk to him, he sound so cold and insensitive. There is an awful feeling that we looked like we have not known and being married for 7 years. I am devastated.