When you are in an argument and the person decides to say that they are wrong and asks you for forgiveness, it’s tempting to kick them while their down. It almost seems like it makes you feel more justified and let the anger out when you don’t them off the hook. They’re vulnerable, and telling them just how bad they hurt you makes you want to argue even more. However, it takes maturity to accept an apology and be respectful. In fact it takes true forgiveness of your heart to accept an apology. And what you’re really doing is letting yourself out of a never ending maze of hurt and hate. Now if someone is constantly hurting you, that doesn’t mean that you should stay in a place of hurt and manipulation. We should use Jesus’ example for ourselves. This isn’t always possible for us, but that is where we ask Jesus to give us strength to do His will.
Jesus, teach me to do your will and have forgiveness as you would have me forgive. Show me you way of love.
Matthew 18:21, 22
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